The Five Toys We Can’t Stop Recommending to Customers With Debbie Simon

Whether you’ve scored some time for yourself or you’re with a partner, sex toys are always a fun way to kick things up a notch in the bedroom. Here are a few of our staff favorites right now:

Romance Massage Sucking Rabbit: We can hardly keep this one on the shelves! The new Romance Massage isn’t your mother’s vibrator. A small horn on the outside stimulates your clit with “delicate suction and tingling stimulation” in addition to the traditional vaginal stimulation. This new favorite features 12 functions of suction and vibration and its curved head targets the G-spot with pin-point precision and its smooth silicone slides across the skin with ease. Our first shipment flew off the shelves, and we expect this to continue to find its way into the hearts (among other places) of our customers.

 

The Womanizer: The Womanizer clitoris stimulator also applies suction directly to the clitoris at selectable intensities and is pretty much guaranteed to bring you to orgasm in short order. Its design may not look overly impressive, but don’t let that fool you — The Womanizer knows how to get the job done. As Cosmopolitan reviewer Krista McHarden says, “It’s what I imagine receiving oral sex from a tongue possessed by a SEX ANGEL would be like.”

Sensuelle Point: With a shaft twice dipped in silicone, the Sensuelle Point provides an ultra-smooth, sensual feel. This super bullet has 20 mind-blowingly intense modes, so one touch is all you’ll need to help you achieve “la petite mort.”

Adam and Eve Thruster: The first silicone thrusting vibrator, the A&E Thruster provides constant thrusting motions, thanks to a three-speed motor in the shaft. The 10” x 1.5” shaft has a unique swirl shape that holds on to lube for a perfect feel. And of course there’s the ever-popular, the seven-function rabbit-style clit stimulator to make sure you get where you need to go. The Thruster is waterproof, which means you can have some fun with your new friend in the bath or shower.

Gvibe 2: This “impressively smart toy” is a step up from the original, with three powerful motors — one at the base and one at each tip — that now allow for prostate massage.  Its improved silicone is even smoother than before and has extra flexibility. With its two tips and six new vibration modes with changeable intensity, the only limit to what you can do with the Gvibe 2 is your imagination.

Now that we’ve given you a few ideas, be sure to come in to the Olde Un, or visit our website at www.oldeunfun.com and let us help you find your favorite new toy!

Curious about BDSM?

With Debbie Simon

BDSM (Bondage & Discipline/Dominance & Submission/Sado-Masochism) is a term used to describe the most erotic and powerful sexual acts humans can perform. The art of dominating and/or relinquishing all control with your partner can be one of the most powerful and intimate acts you can perform as a couple.

In its most basic form BDSM is all about the erotic and sexual acts and mind-sets of dominating and relinquishing control. BDSM has gotten a bad rap, mostly in major media’s representation of it. It does not have to be dangerous or seedy or ridiculous in any way. Having a woman take charge can increase their sexual confidence and also give her partner a break from being ‘in charge’. 

We all know that doing anything too hard your partner is not only illegal, but devastating to a relationship. With BDSM, the best mind is an open one. This can give couples the opportunity to explore fantasies in ways that will bring them even closer. 

Thinking about getting into BDSM? Here are some tips.

1) Starting out…Revealing your desire to explore this new realm may have you shaking in your boots, but no worries! Approaching your partner in an open and casual way can really take fear away. 50 Shades of Grey brought BDSM to the forefront so now is the time! What have you got to lose? The worst word you may hear is ‘no’. Go for it!

2) Develop a plan…It may not be the best idea to go buy a whip, some cuffs and see what happens. Talk about your wildest fantasies openly. You may be surprised how easy it is to grow into a fantasy you both can agree on. Develop a word that means stop. And that word means stop immediately. Step into it lightly and don’t go too far that first time. BDSM is a journey. Treat it as such.

3) Who’s first…Talk about who wants what role in this play. Are you the Dominatrix, demanding he pleasure you with his tongue before you will even touch him? Have you always wanted to be tied up? Spanked? Figure out who leads, who follows, then switch it up next time. Variety is the spice of life.

4) Use the tools…Blindfolds, handcuffs, crops and collars. The tools of BDSM can be as exciting as any orgasm. Start small and grow your collection of toys, they can build off one another to create new and more amazing games and experiences every time you decide to break them out.

5) Dress up…Ladies, please don’t wear your old tattered fleece robe. Get the sexiest lingerie you can find and wear it! Men are visual creatures and they love to see what they are getting. And if you are taking the lead, watching you walk around in that black g-string will really get them wound up.

6) Prepare. Prepare. Prepare…The location. The time. Make sure you are going to be uninterrupted and in a comfortable, safe place. You don’t want anything or anyone breaking in on this moment of connection and exploration. That’s a real mood killer.

"Whether you are dominating, submitting, both or merely exploring - be confident about your body and desires; it’s the ultimate aphrodisiac." - Nichi

There are two last points I want to make about engaging in BDSM or any physical relationship with another person.

1. Have a safe word! It can be anything from apple to zebra. Make sure you both have a clear understanding of that word and that it means STOP IMMEDIATELY.

2. Be 100% sure you can trust and count on your partner. Make sure you can…

     a. Count on them to know when to stop. 

     b. Count on them to be open and not to go too far. 

     c. Count on them not to take anything too seriously, as unplanned moments will definitely happen.

As with any relationship with another person, there are risks of getting hurt. Make sure you go into BDSM with all the details and rules worked out beforehand. 

Whether it is your first experience or you are a seasoned professional, Olde Un has all the latest and greatest BDSM equipment and devices and our trained experts can help make your experience great! So, get out there and HAVE FUN!