Feel The Fireworks!

With Debbie Simon

It’s that time of year again! Time to talk about fireworks in your sex life! Do you have them? Where do you get more? How can you keep feeling them for years to come? Here are my Top Ten ways to get those fireworks!

1)     Experiment. Do you have fantasies that you haven’t shared with your partner? Go for it. Tell them! Sometimes taking that first step makes all the difference. When you are in a trusting relationship, telling your partner your deepest desires, fantasies and wants is sexy as hell!

2)     Flirt. Show your partner that you still find them sexy. Yesterday, today and tomorrow. Flirting should never end in a relationship. It should increase!

3)     Watch Something Naughty. Movies are great way to get the big fireworks show! Men are the visual sex and they can really get turned on by watching others create their own fireworks. Whether your taste is a spicy rated R romance film or a XXX down and dirty movie, watching something naughty is a great way to make those fireworks happen in your own relationship!

4)     Eat. Indulge in the sexy foods of your choice.. Chocolate-covered strawberries. Raw oysters. How about some edible panties with chocolate sauce? Yum.

5)     Be The Beast. Becoming a beast in the bedroom can really spice things up. Tell your partner what you want and how to get it done. Have you ever been tied up? Have you ever tied someone else up? Always respectfully and with limits clearly defined,
being the beast is a real turn-on.

6)     Take Your Time. Carve out some time, some real time, to make sure you and your partner are connecting. Make the effort to concentrate on one part of his or her body for five minutes without moving on. There are lots of sexy things you can do with toes!

7)     Plan. Spontaneity is fabulous and sometimes so is making a plan. There are some great games couples can do together to create that sparkler heat every time. (Did you know sparklers can reach 2,000 degrees? Be careful with those things!)  Buy some flowers. Show your loved one that  you’re thinking about them not just in the moment, but are working hard to create magic in advance!

8)     Dress Up. Whether it’s sexy lingerie or stilettos and nothing else, dressing up can really turn up the heat! And men…don’t ignore your inner police officer or firefighter. Women love a sexy uniform and you’ll need hours to put out that flame.

 9)   Talk. Communication is one of the most over-looked
      firework starters. Talking about how you feel about your
      partner…how much you care and appreciate them…will make
      those roman candles shoot off again and again.

  10)  Take Pictures. Taking sexy pictures of each other makes
      those fireworks pop up every time. Even a personal movie can
      be a fun way to relive those fireworks moments. Always with
      the commitment of keeping them between the two of you,
      of course.

Open your mind. Explore something you may have not tried before, and above all, HAVE FUN! 

Happy Independence Day!

The Five Best New Toys for Women in 2015

With Debbie Simon

New toys are always so exciting and this year is better than ever! From newly designed Rabbits to Super Bullets with 20 speeds! It’s going to be a great ride!
So here are our top picks for 2015…ENJOY!

1) The Sensuelle Impulse  exceeds  expectations. The  deceptively simple, sleek design starts with subtle grooves and continues on to the special hook handle. Its deeply intense motor, with multi-function modes, is designed to create powerful sensations easily with the touch of a finger. The unique touch sensor mode will automatically start upon contact with your body and will delight you with 7 different vibration functions. But it doesn’t end there. Each groove on the Sensuelle Impulse represents a different sensor region with varying intensities. Easily switch between the 7 Vibration Functions and touch Sensor Mode at the push of a button. And let’s not forget the special hook handle that allows the Sensuelle Impulse to be enjoyed externally or internally, and either as a vaginal or anal toy.

2) Get ready for the new Jack Rabbit! The Rabbit has been a favorite for years, and their new Triple Motor Silicone Jack Rabbit is the most incredibly powerful Rabbit ever built! With three motors strategically placed in the tip, shaft and rabbit, you will jump for joy when you feel the power. There are 7 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation along with three speeds of independent shaft rotation and vibrations. This Rabbit has it all!





3) Waterproof travel important in your life? You’ll love the Silhouette 17. With its flexible shaft, incredible durability and beautiful design, this vibrator has some of the best new technology on the market. Dual motors with 10 incredible functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation and intense incremental speed control. Trust us, this one aims to please.

4) Do you love a good strap-on but hate the straps? You have to try the new Love Rider. Strapless and rechargeable, this great new toy offers dual motors with 30 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation. Made with high grade silicone for your comfort and safety, it’s built to last. The large probe measures an impressive 7.75 inches long by 1.5 inches around for 100 inches of fun!






5) If 7 modes won’t cut it, you’ll love the Sensuelle Point. Twice dipped in silicone, to give you an ultra-smooth, silky, sensual feel, it is beautiful to touch and as intense as anything on the market. This baby is not just a bullet, it’s a brand new breed of bullet that will redefine what a good bullet is. The Super Bullet…with 20 mind-blowing modes!  One touch and you will definitely understand the sensation!




Toys are a great way to spice up your night with your partner, keep your body health (see our previous blog post), and help you get to know your body better. Don’t be afraid to try something new! And as always, if you have questions, come by and speak to any of our knowledgeable and experienced staff.